A very good motivation and very true as the vibration in the temple was very good. I did not mean this is the only GOD's Home but HE exist in existence and non existence, so where HE cannot be ? (pisst: HE here is not gender based) We personalise HIM and put gender to him to meet our own emotional and mental needs!
Just outside the temple
The VEL of Murugan. I believe it represents the central nervous system and Valli / Theivanai refers to Idaikalai and Pinkalai. Merge both into CNS, connect vinayagar at the merger of Shiva and Shakti and there you will experience bliss!